Choosing an Energy Healer
Apr 09, 2021(Originally posted 31 January 2008.)
Here is a list of questions to ask yourself when choosing an energy healer.
1. Is this person sincere, authentic, and working from the heart?
2. Do they have command of their ego?
3. Are they self-serving or serving the Divine?
4. Do they treat me with genuine respect?
5. Do they EMPOWER me?
6. Do they take responsibility for their actions?
7. Do they appear balanced, in their heart and in their power?
8. Can they discern energetic information?
9. Do they use their gifts of clairvoyance, clairaudience, etc. as a tool for serving, or do they get caught up in the bells and whistles and feed ego?
10. Do they have a combination of natural skills and training?
11. Can they articulate the information they are sensing?
12. Do they know when to engage or not to engage in conversation?
13. Have they gone through their own transformational process? Can they own up to their own dark side?
14. Do I TRUST them?
15. Have they been trained in a system that keeps secrets or relies on a patriarchal system of attunement? Have they bought their way into calling themselves a healer?
16. Would they withhold information from me to keep me coming back?
17. Can they hold a safe and compassionate energetic space for my process?
18. Do they have the capacity to be a clear mirror?
19. Are they rigid in their approach or can they flow in the moment?
20. Are they grounded?
21. Do they respect issues of confidentiality?
22. Are they clean, clear, and appropriate with their own sexual energy?
Joy Caffrey, January 2008, all rights reserved.
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